The Wounded Masculine
Following on from my previous newsletter about what has been clearing through me and others over the past month, I wanted to share a bit more about the wounded masculine.
Whether you were born male or female in this life, we all have a divine masculine and divine feminine within us.
The feminine energy (on our left side) is the receptive, intuitive energy and the masculine energy (on our right side) is the active, giving energy.
Part of the process of our healing/personal growth journey, is to bring these aspects into balance. To unify the divine masculine, divine feminine and divine child within.
There are many reasons why these inner aspects are wounded. Of course they are impacted by wounding from childhood, but this is layered onto the ancestral and past life wounding we also carry through to clear in this life.
Some of the positive aspects of the Divine Masculine are confidence, responsibility, protection, courage, discipline and focus.
When the masculine is wounded, behaviours can become abusive, domineering, aggressive, controlling, competitive, unsupportive and confrontational.
These positive and wounded aspects of the divine masculine are within us all.
Maybe take a moment to think of someone you know whether male or female that demonstrates positive aspects of the masculine and also the wounded aspects of the masculine.
Can you also recognise both aspects in yourself?
Our childhood experiences with the father figure in our lives, hugely shapes the beliefs and patterns we form and carry into our adult lives.
It affects our trust and sense of safety with men and consequently the relationships we attract through our lives.
Through their negative experiences the wounded inner child believes all men are bad and this unconscious belief stays with you until it's made conscious.
The wounded masculine affects our self-esteem and confidence.
We can procrastinate, afraid to take action.
But, healing the wounded masculine is an inside job and that's why the journey of self-love is so important. It's the journey back home to ourselves and the reuniting of these aspects within us.
Our role models had their own trauma that's carried down the family line. They may not have had the courage to turn inwards, but YOU get to decide.
There is so much societal conditioning and learned behaviour around what it is to be a man and no wonder that male suicide rates have increased. In 2023, the suicide rates in men was it's highest since 1999.
Telling children and men to 'man up' is so damaging. This is sending out a message that it's not ok to be vulnerable or show any perceived weaknesses. You're a man, you have to be strong! Boys don't cry!
And so struggles and vulnerabilities get suppressed and buried.
Which over time manifests in unhealthy patterns of behaviour and physical symptoms in the body.
It leads to emotional immaturity.
It's important to acknowledge and express how we feel, regardless of our gender and not to feel any shame around that.
Past Lives
You may or may not believe in past lives, but from personal experiences, I most certainly do! ;-)
And as I mentioned before, my belief (and experience) is that we've been all things and played all roles.
For me, February was a deeper healing of past lives as a man and in particular on the battle field.
There is so much history and wisdom inside of us. Our souls have experienced many, many lives.
As the momentum continues to grow this year, more of these memories and experiences will be coming up for healing and embodying more of the truth and remembrance of who you are.
Physically experiencing the wounds from the battle field in myself and others and the relief that comes from removing the embedded objects (knives, swords) has been incredible.
We have so much bravery, courage, resilience and strength to remember and embody from those lives.
This journey never ceases to amaze me!
All of these timelines are merging and uniting.
Following my own experiences, I brought through a healing light language transmission for the wounded masculine.
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Remember to be kind and patient with yourself.
Hold space for the wounded masculine within.
Be kind and patient with the men in your life that might be trying to navigate their own silent battles.
Bring forgiveness to yourself and the men that have hurt you in the past.
Tell yourself out loud everyday,
“I Love You, Me”
“I Love You, ALL Parts of ME”
Thank you.
